Identify some of the ways the Spirit speaks to the heart.
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love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance, do good, do justly, walk humbly, judge righteously
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An endowment is a gift. What three gifts do we receive with the endowment?
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Power
Knowledge
blessings
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Of what two things is the initiatory ordinance comprised?
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Washing
anointing
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To have our confidence wax strong in the presence of God and to have the Holy Ghost as our constant companion, what does D&C 121 teach we must do?
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Let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly, be full of charity
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Elder Bednar described three different patterns of light associated with the spirit of revelation. Name them.
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1. Quickly like a light switch. The light of Christ (Conscience, Compassion)
2.Sunrise, gradualt Recollection through the spirit
3. Illumination in the fog. You can see enough to take a few steps but not completely illuminated.
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When, did Elder Holland say, true love blooms?
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When we care more about the other person than we do for ourselves
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Elder Kofford said as you prepare for the temple, the most important thing to evaluate is ___________________________, because there is no substitute for that.
Front
your level of obedience to God's commandments
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Where did the Apostle Paul place charity on the list of Christlike attributes?
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without charity you are nothing
first
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What do the words dedicate and consecrate mean?
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dedicate: set apart from the things of the world
consecrate: to make sacred or holy, devoted to holy purposes
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From the testimony of John:
What is one of the most significant evidences that someone has been born of God and knows God?
What is the greatest manifestation of Heavenly Father's love for us?
What is the relationship between love and fear?
Why do we love God?
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"Everyone that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth God not knoweth not God; for God is love.
God sent his only begotten son; He gave the best he had
perfect love casts out all fear
"We love him because He first loved us."
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Elder Kofford recommended that all who are preparing to go to the temple should participate in _______________________.
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stake-sponsored temple prep class
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Using Mormon's teachings in Moroni 7, complete the following: Charity, the pure love of Christ is a ____________ bestowed upon _____________ who also __________ for charity with all the energy of their hearts.
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gift
All who are true followers
pray
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Name the five love languages suggested by Gary Chapman.
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1. Words of Affirmation
2.Physical Touch
3.Service
4.Quality Time
5.Recieving Gifts
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Elder Holland described three lessons we can learn from the example of Moses parting the Red Sea. What were they?
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1. Satan can oppose us right to the end (water's edge), but if we exert all our efforts, his influence will be dispelled and the light will again appear
2. After you have paid the price to get a spiritual confirmation, go forward. Don't fear or give up if things get hard. If it was right then, it is right now.
3. When the Lord gives a confirmation, He also gives us the assurance that He will provide the power and means to accomplish our goal
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What is the principle of stewardship?
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A man can receive revelation to guide his own actions, but he cannot receive revelation to direct another's. They would be outside their stewardship.
received by laying on of hands?
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What is the Light of Christ?
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an influence, not a personage
our conscience that helps us discern and leads us to repent
leads us to truth, moves us to seek the Gift of the Holy Ghost, and helps us do good and become good
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In seeking revelation to confirm a decision we have made, what did Elder McConkie say we will feel if our conclusion is right? What will follow if our conclusion is wrong?
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Right-bosom burn
Not right-stupor of thought
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When, did Elder Holland say, revelation almost always comes?
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In response to a question
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What did Elder Bednar say will determine, in large measure, our happiness in mortality and our destiny in eternity?
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How we feel about and use the power of procreation
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Elder Holland used the words soul, symbol, and sacrament to represent three reasons why we should stay morally clean. Explain those reasons.
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Soul: is the spirit and the body together; so disrespecting one's body is disrespecting their soul
Symbol: intimacy is a symbol of total union between man and woman
Sacrament: a sacred moment uniting us with God
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True or False: Guilt is a tool of the adversary.
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false
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In striking a balance between agency and inspiration, what did Elder Bruce R. McConkie say is expected of us in terms of our agency?
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Do everything in our power that we can, then seek an answer from the Lord (a confirming seal)
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What is the spirit of revelation?
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the Lord working in our heart and mind to tell us things
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What is the principle of line upon line?
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prompting-action-prompting-action...
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When the people went to hear King Benjamin's address at the temple, what was significant about the positioning of their tents?
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they were facing the temple: keeping our hearts and minds on the temple/center of our worship
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True or False: When possible, Elder Kofford said, it is recommended that you receive your endowment the same day you are sealed?
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false- a few days before
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How did Elder Holland define a sacrament?
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gestures or acts or ordinances that unite us with God and his limitless powers
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What is the principle of bias?
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putting favor on our own preferences
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Alma taught his son, Shiblon, that if we want to be filled with love, what must we do?
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Use boldness, but not overbearance; and also see that you bridle all your passions, that you may be filled with love; see that you refrain from idleness
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What did Elder Oaks say is the difference between what true religion teaches and what the pseudoreligions of our day teach?
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Responsibilities to love, give, serve v. self-indulgence, taking, and demanding service
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As discussed in class, Elder Kofford gave three suggestions regarding what we can do to help nonmember parents or relatives, or those who cannot qualify for a temple recommend, feel that they are part of the marriage? Name them.
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1. Be understanding of feelings/express why and what will happen
2. Make them feel as much a part of what's going on that day.
3. Arrange a meeting for those who don't have temple recommendations. It may include the exchanging of rings but it should not include a ceremony or the exchange of vows.
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How did Elder Richard G. Scott define the law of chastity
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any intentional contact with the sacred private parts of another body, with or without clothing, is a sin and/or intentionally stimulating sexual emotions
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What is the position of the Church on exchanging rings in the temple? On exchanging vows, outside the temple, after a temple marriage?
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Couples may exchange rings after the ceremony in the room where the ceremony takes place.
Couples should not exchange vows outside of the temple.
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Elder Bednar said: "Defiling the body is an act of ______________ and a denial of _________________."
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Rebellion
Our true identity
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True or False: Shame is a tool of the adversary.
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True
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Elder Holland said if you want capability, safety, and security in dating and romance, you must ________________.
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Be a true disciple of Christ
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What is the principle of consistency as it relates to personal revelation?
Front
You may not have been doing the right things long enough.
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Name the four covenants, noted by President Faust, we make in the temple
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Obedience
Sacrifice
Chastity
Consecration
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What are the two great commandments, described in Matthew 22?
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Love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, soul, mind
Love thy neighbor as thyself
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Name the five tests of true love taught by Elder John A. Widtsoe
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1. True love always includes the love of God and the proof of the love of God is obedience to his law
2. Love is always founded in truth and honesty. Lies and deceit are proofs of love's absence.
3. Love does not offend or hurt or injure the loved one.
4. True love serves and helps the loved one. If there is a need, love supplies it. If there is a weakness, love supplants it with strength.
5. True love sacrifices for the loved one.
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Complete the following counsel from Elder Holland: ____________ the best of each other. ____________ the good and ____________the bad.
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Think
Assume
Doubt
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Elder McConkie related how Oliver Cowdery was counseled to "ask in faith." What does it mean to ask in faith?
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That we have already done everything we can and then asking him believeing in an answer
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What is sexual fragmentation?
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counterfeit of intimacy
two people marry for physical gratification and then discover the illusion of oneness collapses under the weight of intellectual, emotional, social and spiritual incompatibilities
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Describe the four parts of the revelatory process discussed in class from section 9 of the Doctrine and Covenants.
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1. study in your mind (in amount equal to the decision we are going to make)
2. ask in prayer for confirmation (more of a process than an event)
3. feel that it is right (not KNOW)
4. If your decision is wrong, you will have a stupor of thought.
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In D&C 63:16, the Savior noted what three consequences of lustful thoughts?
Front
have not the Spirit
deny the faith
shall fear
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In 1 Corinthians 6, Paul said our physical body is the _________________. He then went on to say: "Ye are not your own, for ye are bought with a price." What does that mean?
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temple
Your body is a house for the spirit, it is not our own.
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Elder Holland quoted President Hinckley in saying that most problems in love and marriage ultimately start with ________________?
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selfishness
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Identify some of the ways the Spirit speaks to the mind.
Front
Logical/ makes sense
Enlightenment
Remembrance
Discernment
Optimistic, positive thinking
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Where and when was the endowment revealed to Joseph Smith?
Front
Joseph Smith's red brick store, Nauvoo, March 1842
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What is the primary purpose of temples?
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Provide ordinances necessary for exaltation in the celestial kingdom - for both the living and no longer living
Back
Section 2
(30 cards)
What is euthanasia and what is the Church's position on it?
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deliberately putting to death someone with an incurable illness; participation or assistance in suicide is a violation of God's commandments
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What percentage of couples in the world have difficulty conceiving a child?
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15%
Back
At what point does the heart begin to beat and blood begin to flow in a fetus?
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beat: 22 days
flow: 26 days
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True or False: The decisions of when to have children and how many children to have and whether or not to use birth control are to be made between the husband and wife alone.
Front
False (HF should be included too)
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To achieve intimacy, what three things do women say they most want or need?
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1. To feel cherished and to receive non-sexual affection
2. conversation/feeling understood
3. honesty
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True or False: The names of stillborn children can be included in the family's group record and temple ordinances can be performed for them.
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False - Name can be recorded with still born in parentheses but temple ordinances are not performed
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What four things did Laura Brotherson say you need to know to be sufficiently educated sexually?
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1. Human sexual response-mechanics and techniques
2. Knowledge about your body and its sexual functioning
3. Knowledge about your spouse's body and its sexual functioning
4. Knowledge of general sexual differences between men and women to promote understanding and empathy for each other's needs
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What three keys did the Apostle Paul teach about building marital intimacy in 1 Corinthians 7?
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1. Charity or benevolence
2. Trust
3. Equal Partnership
Back
What is the Church's position on surgical sterilization?
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Strongly discouraged, only should be considered if
it would seriously jeopardize life or health, or birth defects or serious trauma have rendered a person mentally incompetent and not responsible for his or her actions
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Under what three conditions might an abortion be approved of the Lord?
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1. Pregnancy is the result of rape or incest
2. A competent physician determines that the life or health of the mother is in serious jeopardy
3. A competent physician determines that the fetus has severe defects that will not allow the baby to survive beyond birth
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To achieve intimacy, what three things do men say they most want or need?
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1. Sexual fulfillment
2. Recreational companionship - can have fun with
3. An attractive spouse (visual)
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What two guiding principles did President Howard W. Hunter say should govern the intimate relationship between husband wife?
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−Tenderness and respect
−"Any domineering, indecent, or uncontrolled behavior in the intimate relationship between husband and wife is condemned by the Lord."
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What is the Church's position on cremation?
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It is not encouraged but if done, the body should be dressed in temple clothing when cremated
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What is in vitro fertilization and what is the Church's position on it?
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collecting (retrieving) mature eggs from the ovaries and fertilizing them, in a lab, with sperm.
The Church strongly discourages in vitro fertilization using semen from anyone but the husband or an egg from anyone but the wife.
this is a personal matter that ultimately must be left to the judgment of the husband and wife. Responsibility for the decision rests solely upon them.
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True or False: Laura Brotherson suggested that praying for help in improving sexual intimacy in marriage is inappropriate.
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false
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President Nelson said: "When a life is created by sinful behavior, the best way to begin personal repentance is to ______________," and to consider the wonderful alternative of _______________.
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Preserve the life of that child adoption
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Wendy Watson said most husbands and wives wield "weapons of war" that fight against their marital intimacy. How did she define "weapons of war?"
Front
thoughts, feelings, behaviors, that keep spouses feeling separate and single within marriages
These weapons wound, maim, destroy, defile, or kill marital intimacy.
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What did Wendy Watson say intimacy of any kind involves?
Front
Reciprocal feelings of trust and emotional closeness and an open communication of thoughts
Back
Name four reasons why sexual relations were ordained of God in marriage.
Front
1. Procreation: multiply and replenish the earth
2. Expressing love: love is cleanliness and sacrifice and selflessness, tenderness and respect
3. Strengthening emotional ties: emotional intimacy - helping each other feel safe, validated, loved understood
4. Strengthening spiritual ties: all things unto me are spiritual, my commandments are spiritual
**Enjoyment
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What is the Church's position on organ donation and reception?
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A selfless and beneficial action; to be decided by the individual (or, if deceased, their family)on through prayer.
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It is wrong to take a life, including one's own. However, a person who commits suicide may not be responsible for his or her acts. What are some of the things the Lord will take into consideration in judging them?
Front
Genetic and chemical makeup
Mental state
Intellectual capacity
Teachings we have received
Traditions of our fathers
health
Back
How many abortions, did President Nelson say, occur worldwide each year?
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40 million
Back
True or False: President Nelson said, for Latter-day Saints, the sin of abortion cannot be forgiven.
Front
false
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In class, we discussed four safeguards we can use to protect ourselves against the temptation of pornography, now and in the future. Name them.
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1. Be in tune with spiritual promptings.
2. Have clear, specific purpose when you us an electronic device.
3. Be disciplined. Take control of your devices.
4. Use the "buddy" system.
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Wendy Watson noted two types of activities that will help a couple prepare for intimacy. Name them.
Front
1. Activities that draw spouses' hearts out to one another
2. Activities that invite the spirit
Back
What is the Church's position on prolonging life?
Front
Members should not feel obligated to extend mortal life when the means are unreasonable and death becomes inevitable
Back
Laura Brotherson counseled couples to schedule time for fulfilling sexual encounters. She said that time should be __________ time, not __________ time.
Front
Priority
leftover
Back
True of False: Members of the Church who encourage, submit to, pay for, or perform an abortion (except when medically necessary) are subject to Church disciplinary action.
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true
Back
What is surrogate motherhood and what is the Church's position on it?
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a woman (called a surrogate mother) becomes pregnant and gives birth to a baby in order to give it to someone who cannot have children.
The Church strongly discourages surrogate motherhood.
personal choice
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What is artificial insemination and what is the Church's position on it?
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injection of semen into the vagina or uterus without sexual intercourse
The church strongly discourages artificial insemination using semen from anyone but the husband
Responsibility for the decision is solely up to the couple (personal matter)
Artificial insemination of single sisters is not approved and may be subject to church discipline